As I told you yesterday, I signed up for Eharmony!
Trying to find someone through this avenue is quite the interesting process!
It’s in stages.
First you send an ice breaker. And there’s a list of ones you can choose from.
“Hi, I’d like to chat.”
“I love your smile.”
“We seem to live close to each other, let’s chat.”
And so on and so forth, I laugh because some of them are cheesy, but a lot of them I feel comfortable sending.
Nothing like a good ice breaker to break the ice.
Then once you’ve reached that point the person can send you 5 questions from a list Eharmony gives you, for you to answer, and vice versa.
One guy asked me how I feel about food??? How random is that?
My first thought was… Ummmm, I like it a whooooooole lot. And if you don’t like food, this could pose a problem, ha! What do you think, is that a good answer? LOL!
The options of questions you have to choose from cover all ends of the spectrum.
So you sit there, thinking oh, is it too soon to ask this question, is this question appropriate. It really is hard to narrow it down.
Then you move on to share your “must have” and can’t stand” in a relationship…
I like this part because this is where you really get to know the person and can ask more questions based off what they shared. It really gives you a glimpse into what they are looking for and whether it’s compatable with you or not. I think this is probably the most IMPORTANT step!
And then the last and final step is Eharmony mail, where you can talk back and forth over email through Eharmony if you chose to proceed to get to know each other better!
Let me back up though… Before I completely signed up, because at first I was doing the 10-day free trial, and I couldn’t see any pictures… Keep this in mind.
But if I liked the profile of the person and what they had to say, I sent an ice breaker. When I signed up fully and could see the picture…. I was like whoah, big mistake. If I would have known then what I know now, I so would not have sent that ice breaker.
I'm a newbie but my first piece of advice, make sure you SEE the picture first! Just sayin!
I know, so wrong of me, ha!
But hey, you gotta have some kind of attraction, right???
This could get very interesting!!
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